Carrying out the complaints procedure safely: aggressive or threatening behaviour

If you’ve had to stop a complaints investigation due to aggressive behaviour from parents/carers, you still need to carry out the process set out in your policy. Find out how to proceed fairly and safely for all involved.

Last reviewed on 3 October 2025
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Contents
  1. First steps after an incident
  2. Know your legal standing
  3. Decide how to proceed safely
  4. Keep the procedure fair and compliant

For an overview of the complaints process, see our summary for boards on dealing with complaints. If you’re looking for more information on how and when to stop a meeting due to unsafe behaviour, see our other article. 

First steps after an incident

Record the incident according to your school's procedures Take time to check on the wellbeing of any staff or other governors involved in the incident Write to the parent/carer to confirm that the meeting was stopped and why – explain that you'll write to them again shortly to outline the next steps in the process (the governance professional will likely be the one to write and send the letter) Consider seeking advice from your local authority (LA), trust or